When you say group of friends, do they mirror you as a person? do they have the qualities like you?
I always hear my father say, "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who are. . . " Do the people that surrounds you define who you are?
Let us put yourself in a situation where you are surrounded by four guys, YOU are the fifth. One guy has killed a man in his past, the second is a priest and the rest are just drunkards and you on the other hand is a business man. Now, here's the situation, you have been friends with these people for like half of your life and you've bonded with them but then, you don't have the qualities like them. So if I tell my father that my friends are murderers and drunkards, does that make me one? If they are not the same with each other, can they still be called friends?
How do you define a friend really? A lot of posts have been made about that on any social media out there and there are a lot of ideas that people have when it comes to making friends. They classify one as a bestfriend, a close friend, a friend, an acquaintance ( If that counts as a friend, but to some it does ), and etc. How do you go through those levels? How are you friends with strangers?
That idea has bogged me for quite some time really.
I never really place myself in just one group because I see myself in nothing. I try to fit in, I have done anything from smoking to drinking ( No drugs so maybe that doesn't make it everything? ) and to whatever you can think of, I just don't belong to any group.
How do you find yourself? Does anybody feel that way or is it just me?
I am friends with dogs, does that make me a dog? Maybe or maybe not.
I currently belong to a NETWORKING BUSINESS where it involves meeting strangers and making them your business partner in a way. I can see myself failing in it BUT I am now earning. Thought it is a bit hard to fit in with the team that I belong to, maybe it's due to the geographical differences, no one knows. Or maybe I am separating myself from them without me knowing? I hope not.
Is it possible to be a natural person repellent? Like your aura repels people, I do hope I don't stink that much. Lol
Though networking is fun since you will earn while meeting different personalities along the way. Facebook, twitter and instagrams are a form of networking but I'm not earning from it. Might as well get paid by doing networking. Right?
So back to the topic, how do you attract certain types of people? how do you know what to attract and how do you know that you would fit in a certain group of people?
Guess, we'll never know, right SPACE? hmm
I always hear my father say, "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who are. . . " Do the people that surrounds you define who you are?
Let us put yourself in a situation where you are surrounded by four guys, YOU are the fifth. One guy has killed a man in his past, the second is a priest and the rest are just drunkards and you on the other hand is a business man. Now, here's the situation, you have been friends with these people for like half of your life and you've bonded with them but then, you don't have the qualities like them. So if I tell my father that my friends are murderers and drunkards, does that make me one? If they are not the same with each other, can they still be called friends?
How do you define a friend really? A lot of posts have been made about that on any social media out there and there are a lot of ideas that people have when it comes to making friends. They classify one as a bestfriend, a close friend, a friend, an acquaintance ( If that counts as a friend, but to some it does ), and etc. How do you go through those levels? How are you friends with strangers?
That idea has bogged me for quite some time really.
I never really place myself in just one group because I see myself in nothing. I try to fit in, I have done anything from smoking to drinking ( No drugs so maybe that doesn't make it everything? ) and to whatever you can think of, I just don't belong to any group.
How do you find yourself? Does anybody feel that way or is it just me?
I am friends with dogs, does that make me a dog? Maybe or maybe not.
I currently belong to a NETWORKING BUSINESS where it involves meeting strangers and making them your business partner in a way. I can see myself failing in it BUT I am now earning. Thought it is a bit hard to fit in with the team that I belong to, maybe it's due to the geographical differences, no one knows. Or maybe I am separating myself from them without me knowing? I hope not.
Is it possible to be a natural person repellent? Like your aura repels people, I do hope I don't stink that much. Lol
Though networking is fun since you will earn while meeting different personalities along the way. Facebook, twitter and instagrams are a form of networking but I'm not earning from it. Might as well get paid by doing networking. Right?
So back to the topic, how do you attract certain types of people? how do you know what to attract and how do you know that you would fit in a certain group of people?
Guess, we'll never know, right SPACE? hmm
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